Entering a field that is demanding, rigorous and grueling can be intimidating, especially as a woman in a space where men dominate and hold higher positions. While the achievements of women in law have been celebrated, with notable successes such as Justice Mandisa Maya’s recent appointment as Chief Justice, it’s important to acknowledge the many strides women have made in the legal profession. Witnessing these successes through this lens has been truly remarkable.
Looking at my own personal journey from starting as a Candidate Attorney, progressing to Associate, and now as a Senior Associate I have faced numerous professional and personal challenges while striving for excellence and progression in my career. Initially, I measured my success based on milestone moments and my standing relative to others in similar positions.
However, my understanding of success evolved when I became a mother. The need for balance became evident, and this shift was undoubtedly challenging. Juggling the demands of climbing the corporate ladder while embracing the life-changing experience of motherhood was a difficult fight. My perspective on success within the context of law changed completely. My new goal was to be a good attorney with a moral compass and an influence that could motivate my peers. At the same time, I questioned whether the demanding career in law was still what I wanted to pursue after becoming a mother. The saying, “The days are long, but the years are short,” resonated deeply with me. It applied not only to motherhood but also to my career. The days in private practice are often long and demanding, but the years to achieve one’s career aspirations are fleeting. Once I realized this, I understood that the drive for greatness and success was no longer about attaining a high-profile position. Instead, it became about the substance, quality, values, and work ethic I bring to the table while also balancing family life.
Adapting to this new perspective took time, and the process varies for everyone. However, once I realigned my focus on my career, I developed a completely different perspective based on the purpose, identity, and motivation I gained after becoming a mother. Achieving new levels of success meant challenging myself to study while balancing work and family, even when it became demanding. I now rely on my team for support and take time to learn, mentor, and support others in law, especially by creating spaces where women can empower one another.
Ultimately, success for a woman in law is not limited to accomplishments or achievements. It is about overcoming personal and professional challenges, wearing all the hats that come with being a woman, pursuing your career with passion and heart, and empowering those around you.
“I believe that we must keep pushing for the change we want to see, and we must support each other in that journey. Our strength as women in law comes not only from our achievements but from our ability to lift others up and create a more equitable and just world.” – Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg
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Lauren Barnard Slamet
Senior Associate
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